Sometimes we have to give priority to certain things. Not everybody can understand why we prioritize those certain things. To hell with it. Maybe some people thought this XY thing is much more important than this AB thing and you thought the other way round.
Why bother when you're the one managing your own life and your own financial.
If you feel you need to invest, then invest.
If you feel you need to save, then save.
If you feel you need to furnish your house, then furnish it.
If you feel you need to go shopping, then go shopping.
If you feel you need a vacation, then go take a vacation.
It's all about choices... we make.