Friends are the ones we love to be around with. A best friend is someone we really trust and love to share our views with. Well, that's my definintion of friends. Based on my silly definition, I have a lot of best friends.
I have an idea of considering best friends as someone who'll really stands beside you during your ups and downs. On top of that, I also believe that best friends should be your unofficial advisor - for good of course. But, I do experience an awkward relationship with someone I called my best friend.
I'm not sure whether he's joking or what, but he'll always suggest something that is logically not good for me. For an instance, "Beli je, ape lagi tunggu?" eventhough you know the purchase will cause you a headache and regret. I somehow feel like, is he trying to pull me down or what?
Then, there's this "rivalry" kind of issue in which I think it shouldnt take place in between you and someone who you call best friend. In a way, he somehow whether purposely or not, like to make comparisons. It's like, dude, you're just as unfortunate as me kind of expression.
But, being in the friendship so long, I just ignore the silly thoughts and take it as a joke. Suddenly, picture this: (in a discussion about books written by Azizi Ali and Irfan Khairi on how to make money) "Kalau kau tau sesuatu benda atau teknik yang boleh menguntungkan kau, boleh buat duit cara senang, kau nak share ke dengan orang lain?"
And I went... hmm...
How do you feel?
Friday, November 3, 2006
IS IT LIKE THAT?
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dude, i couldnt agree more that best friend is our 'sorta' alter ego. it's up to you to justify your action. no doubt we may know them for like ages, butthat doesnt mean what they said boleh pakai punya. heehee. it's up to us to filter, whether or not the thing gonna 'cost' us in the future.
BUT... the "Kalau kau tau sesuatu benda atau teknik yang boleh menguntungkan kau, boleh buat duit cara senang, kau nak share ke dengan orang lain?" sounds soooooooooooooooooo ikan ! :-D
best = "terbaik"
friend = "sahabat"
"Sahabat" bukan ke sepatutnya yang "baik"? Kalau tak baik tu "seteru" namanya.
Anyways, berkawan biar seribu; berkasih biar satu - ni dah out-of-date.
Oh ya! Satu lagi! Kau rasa-rasa Afdlin sudi tak amik novel aku buat filem? Saja nak tanya kengkawan... hihihi....
nina: nice new photo!
najwa aiman: you can always visit the visionworks office kat wangsa maju. i would suggest, you do a research on afdlin's works first.
kalau kawan ko, lagak macam musuh ko..ko cakap kat dia:
"Jalan la mak looo-hooong..."
:)
Hehe!
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